Sunday, September 26, 2010

Does Sex Really Change Things?

Hearts broken... Relationships Ended... Love Lost and Gained... These are just some of the "consequences" when you bring sex into the picture. But Does Sex Really Change Things?



History has taught me that sex does change things. It matters more than some people want to admit. After all, Ive talked to friends and some would  not even consider dating a female or male if the intercourse was not acceptible. Likewise, some will not participate in the act until marriage. There are conflicting views on the subject, but one thing is clear, sex is the most talked about subject in todays time.

In a world where sex and sex appeal is promoted there's no reason why everyone talks about it. Kids are having sex at younger ages and those who aren't are considered to be missing out. Relationships have been started on good sex if not great, but is that really the foundation that needs to be in place for a relationship to work? Why does sex make a person love a person more? I believe a relationship can not survive with just good sex, but it can balance out the lows of one. But it gets complicated...

There are those that participate in intercourse with their spouse and/or casual partner, but do not want to do oral, anal, and other types of sexual activities. Some people just are not into those things and some require more than just regular sex. The topic gets very broad... There are so many factors to consider. Those who have sex want to try different things (oral, anal, etc.) because regular sex just isnt enough anymore, those who have bad sex look at their partner differently afterwards, and those who choose not to participate in intercourse miss out on meeting half the world and starting a relationship built on core values because most will not give them the time of day.

Leave you opinion... Is sex a must in your love life? Will you stay with a person after having consistent bad sex? Does Sex Really Change Things? What Do You Think?

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Money Makes Me...

How important is money to you? I understand this question could be answered in many different ways seeing as though everyone's situation is different, but in this world today money is somewhat important to everyone.



We live in a society where people are judged by their financial status. We all went to high school and we all know about the different ways we classify one another; the rich kids, the poor kids, the middle class that just seem to fit in, etc. Although, money can not buy love, it can put you in stressful situations, whether you have a lot of money or little to know money. The rich suffer from different problems then those of the poor class of people. So is it better to just be in the middle? I personally do not have to be rich, but I must be comfortable to be happy. It just so happens that money is needed in order to live comfortable in this day and time.

There are those that say, Money cant buy happiness... Money is the root of all evil... Money cant buy love... But at the end of the day what are we all talking about, "Money." So whether we like it or not money plays a major part on how we live our lives and how "comfortable" we are as human beings.

Agree or Disagree?

Saturday, September 11, 2010

When Is It Time To Say Goodbye?

People who know me know I dont watch much tv, but lately I have been watching Jersey Shore. Jersey Shore is a reality tv show featuring a group of people from New Jersey and the surrounding area who have to live together, hence where the drama occurs. There is a couple on the show who have been getting a lot of attention over the past episodes, Sammie and Ron. Sammie, a typical head over heels into the relationship girl, is dating Ron on and off, but Ronnie keeps cheating on here. Not gonna go into too much detail on the show, but it is very entertaining I recommend watching it.

So when is it really time to say, enough is enough? Sammie is well aware of the way Ron acts and the way he treats her, but she continues to stay committed. I never understood why some females will stay in abusive, unstable, or bad relationships. Is love enough to keep you with a person that cheats, hits you, argues or calls you names? I see this happening a lot. When is it timeto say goodbye? Do you put up with it hoping that he or she will change in the long run? Or do you give up and just say goodbye?

Leave your opinion, I wanna hear what you all think...

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Its Time For Some Football...

It is exactly 21 minutes until the kickoff of the 2010-2011 football season. Ready to enjoy watching football along with its benefits, including the lazy yet energetic state it leaves me in... haha My predictions for this year are bias, as it is every year. Go Cowboys... Its only right that we make it to the big game in the year the Super Bowl is played in our stadium. (duh) On a side note, Halo: Reach for the 360 is coming out 9/14 so all my halo fans get ready.

On to other topics, my weekend went well. Took a trip to the country, which equalled, less than satisfactory cell phone coverage. This bothers me. Everyone knows I am a big fan of AT&T and Apple, but I am plagued with Edge connectivity in more locations than need be. I mean come on AT&T, how are you gonna launch your 4g network in less than a year when 3g coverage is not offered in a lot of places. Any who, Ill keep hoping and praying for a change. Luv you guys through thick and thin.

Im using a new app for writing my blogs starting Saturday so hopefully this will keep me from having to rush to write my blogs, seeing as though I can write them on the go... Other than that, look for my blog Saturday, September 11... I have an interesting topic to discuss. Until then, enjoy the game and your weekend guys... LGi

What's your prediction: Saints or Vikings? And do you think Brett Favre will have a year less than, equal to, or greater than last years numbers?

Friday, September 3, 2010

Music On The Road...

I am going out of town for the weekend since I am out of school for the next four days. Being the nice person that I am, I decided to compile a list of the top 10 artists I am listening to right now... Some you may like, some you may not like... Feel free to leave a comment, What are you top 10 artists of choice right now?

1. Lil Wayne
2. Eminem
3. Trey Songz
4. Nicki Minaj
5. Drake
6. J. Cole
7. Kanye West
8. Jay-Z
9. T.I.
10. Young Jeezy

Most Influential/Fav Artist: Jay-Z, He influenced me as an artist very much so...

I didnt include myself in the list because I didnt want you all to think the list was in some way bias... But you know I had to attach a link to my music player (Just In Case You Guys Wanted To Hear Some Of My Music)

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My next blog will be posted on 7th, have a great weekend and leave me plenty comments...

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Women Lie, Men Lie...

It seems this topic will always be up for debate so why not talk about it again. There is a superficial image that men and women display when they start a new relationship. Why do men and women do this? I think the reasons range from being wanted, to not wanting their spouse to see too much of them at once. Not to say that the other party would not like what they see or hear, but maybe too much of a good thing at once can run a person away.

So instead we choose to lie indirectly; not necessarily using falsifying statements to enhance our personality, but displaying an image of yourself that is pleasing to the eyes and ears. This ranges from dressing really nice, to saying things that you normally wouldnt say on a regular basis, and doing things that you normally would not do in a long term relationship. The problem with this is that no one can keep up the first impression that leave many thinking he/she is the one. Eventually, he/she is gonna is going to do, wear, or say something that you did not know could be said. Thats why you hear couples argue about things that they used to do, that they do not do anymore.

Do you agree with me? Do you think you give off a false persona of yourself to the opposite sex? Men lie and women lie, for it is a way of life and something that just seems to happen. What can we do to change it? Leave your opinions please. Thanks.